Perceived Parental Favoritism and Adult Sibling Dynamics Among Black American Adults

Abstract

Parental favoritism causes lasting damage to childhood self-esteem and sibling bonds, yet its long-term effects on adult relational health remain understudied, particularly within Black American families.  Grounded in family systems and ecological systems theories, this qualitative study examined how Black American adults perceive the enduring effects of parental favoritism on sibling rivalry and adult intimacy.  Semistructured interviews were conducted with 12 Black American adults across the United States.  Inductive thematic analysis revealed five core themes: (a) navigating closeness and distance, (b) cultural resilience and adaptation, (c) communication and conflict resolution, and (c) the evolution of relationships over time.  The findings demonstrate that while favoritism introduces systemic friction and emotional distance, macro-level cultural environments-such as school and church networks-foster unique sibling resilience.  These insights can inform culturally responsive, family-centered counseling interventions and psychoeducational practices.